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Getting fit for God is a physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual transformation of the spirit, mind, soul, and body. Our goals are to reach out to women of all ages, color, and creed who struggle with their identity, sexuality, and self-worth. God created us to be of substance, beautiful, powerful, and with a beautiful mind.

Baggage can make us think that we have to settle for any man that comes our way and that is not so. It is because of our mindset, when our minds are clouded we can’t think straight, so therefore we can’t discern the good from the bad. Now this is not a male bashing or lashing website. I give honor and praise to God for creating men and that he made us the crown jewel for them. Notice I said we are the crown jewel for men. Genesis 2:21 And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof: And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.

That being said, the million dollar question to you is “Are you willing to wait?” Are you willing to let God clean you up, fill you up spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically before he send you the mate he has just for you? Sometimes this is our problem, waiting. We can wait for a new Beyonce CD to come out at the nearest Best Buy or a Blockbuster to hit the movie theater, but waiting on God is the last thing we want to do. This type of thinking can make us miss our blessings completely. I’ve heard that before the blessing comes, there is a counterfeit. Many times our blessings are around the corner, but the unwillingness to wait can make us settle for a counterfeit.

I want to share with you my story, granted this has nothing to do with relationships, but go along with me. January 2008 I purchased the car of my dreams, or so I thought. I thought I was getting this car for a steal, yet a small voice deep down inside of me told me not to buy the car, because I was getting ready to launch my first novel “Love is all we’re after.” It was a warning I ignored. The deal I got for the car turned out to be a steal, but not in my favor, but in the dealers favor. I have taken that car to the repair job nine times and out of those nine times, zero repairs have rectify the problem. All because I couldn’t wait for the right car, I had to rush the hands of God. That is the same thing with relationships ladies; you cannot rush into them without the guidance of the Lord.

The awesomeness of God

By Andrea' Porter

To the only wise God and his awesomeness. Who have created Heaven and Earth. How beautiful it is to sing praises to the Lord, to lift up Holy hands, and sing praises to his name.

Bless the Lord oh my soul and all that is within me, bless the Lord for his mercies endures forever. I will bless the Lord at all times, his name shall continually be in my mouth.

Oh when I think of the goodness of God, I could just dance, dance, dance. The Lord is my light and salvation, whom shall I fear? I will say of the Lord, " He is my refuge and my fortress;

My God, in him I will trust. Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him and he will direct your path. He will never leave nor forsake me.

He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. It is a pleasure and an honor to worship at your throne, to bow my knees, and outstretch my arms. Oh God you have been good, you have been better to me than I have been to myself.

This joy that I have the world didn't give and the world cannot take it away. The joy of the Lord is my strength. I am reminded that your strength is made perfect in weakness.

My soul cries for Thee, in it is in you that I find my hope and love. You give me joy when there is none. You hold my hand when everyone has left. You wipe my tears when they have been many. You Lord, You alone is who I

desire.

What do women want? Here it is in a nutshell

By Andrea’ Porter

I asked a group of women what qualities they look for in a mate and here is what they had to say- And it is not the status quo.

Here is a list I have compiled from the women I interviewed: Financial stability (men you’ve got to have a job), the willingness to wait for any sexual activities (keep your hands to yourself), humorous, be a good communicator, spontaneous, shared common interest and last but certainly not the least. In fact, it is last because I wanted to leave that on the forefront of your minds. Love God, not by empty words, but with your actions. So there you have, it guys.

Women are fed up; they are sick and tired of being shortchanged. Because what they’re getting, is a far cry away from the above. The two worst traits,

known as deal breakers are insecurity and dishonesty.

Regina had a lot to share with me on what insecurity will do to a man’s ability to see pass reasoning. She told me that after she got married her husband did a 360-degree turn. He went from allowing her to have her space, to wanting to be with her everywhere she went. “He probably would come to work with me too,” she said. “Things got so bad, I had to file for divorce, change my name and address, because he was stalking me.”

When this happens, we already see the signs we just choose to ignore them. Regina later admited to seeing the signs on a few occasions, but thought nothing of it. She blew it off as him being protective. -Another deal breaker is dishonesty. “I don’t want my guy to share everything with me,” says, Casey, a sales rep, in Parkdale mall. “But I want him to be truthful when I ask him something specific.” In the real world that is easier said than done, because most men have the tendency to lie about anything and everything. Honesty goes hand in hand with respect and if you respect someone. You will always do your best to be honorable in your dealings.

It’s true we all desire perfection, but do people really want a perfect mate? Wouldn’t that be boring? … Or maybe we’re aiming too high without a target?

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